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		<title>Polity Shift?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 19:41:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I quit reading CJ&#8217;s blog over a year ago, but with the start of the Winter Olympics, I was looking for some advice, ala CJ&#8217;s annual &#8220;tips for watching the Superbowl&#8221;.
No such luck, but I did find a recent post by Dave Harvey, that included the following statement:
The function fulfilled by men following in Paul’s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I quit reading CJ&#8217;s blog over a year ago, but with the start of the Winter Olympics, I was looking for some advice, ala CJ&#8217;s annual &#8220;tips for watching the Superbowl&#8221;.</p>
<p>No such luck, but I did find a <a href="http://www.sovereigngraceministries.org/Blog/post/Church-Planting-and-Apostolic-Ministry.aspx" target="_blank">recent post by Dave Harvey</a>, that included the following statement:</p>
<p><em>The function fulfilled by men following in Paul’s (and Timothy’s, and Silas’s, and Epaphras’s, etc.) footsteps is primarily missiological, not ecclesiological. The accent rests on gospel mission, not church maintenance. And the specific expression of that mission is church planting. “[Paul’s] more functional understanding of apostleship,” says Gordon Fee, “would certainly have its modern counterparts in those who found and lead churches in unevangelized areas.”</em></p>
<p>Is<em> </em>this a new view, or have I not been paying attention?<em><br />
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		<title>Grace Church in San Diego</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2010/02/01/grace-church-in-san-diego/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 16:19:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A beautiful thing happened at the SGC in San Diego yesterday.
Mark Lauterbach, the senior pastor who was de-gifted and then re-gifted, shared his heart with the congregation after his Sunday morning sermon. There was another meeting last night, but I haven&#8217;t received any details yet.
I&#8217;m told that after his sermon, Mark asked the congregation to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A beautiful thing happened at the SGC in San Diego yesterday.</p>
<p>Mark Lauterbach, the senior pastor who was de-gifted and then re-gifted, shared his heart with the congregation after his Sunday morning sermon. There was another meeting last night, but I haven&#8217;t received any details yet.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m told that after his sermon, Mark asked the congregation to forgive him. He publicly confessed to the sins of pride and control, specifically, that he had refused input from the congregation, and confessed that was wrong for the pastors to decide in major issues themselves, and then inform the congregation.</p>
<p>Mark also stated that he had confused control for good leadership, and had sought to run things himself, instead of seeing others gifts and letting them walk in their gifting. He said that he had assumed too much authority.</p>
<p>The other pastor on staff confessed to ignoring input from the congregation regarding his responsibilities.</p>
<p>As an aside, here&#8217;s Mark&#8217;s latest blog post:</p>
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<p><em>&#8220;In my readings today, a wonderful word from Tozer on introspection and joylessness:</em></p>
<p><em>While we are looking at God we do not see ourselves &#8212; blessed riddance.  The man who has struggled to purify himself and has had nothing but repeated failures will experience real relief when he stops tinkering with his soul and looks away to the Perfect One.  (Pursuit of God)</em></p>
<p><em>Now that, in a few words, is what I have been trying to say in many.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>AMEN!</p>
<p>There are pastors in every denomination, including SGM, who are very concerned with job security. I know pastors who need SGM, as they would be unemployable if their relationship with SGM ended.</p>
<p>I also know pastors within SGM who don&#8217;t need them. Some would have larger congregations if they were unencumbered with SGM&#8217;s baggage.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve thought for years that Mark was in the latter category, and for what it&#8217;s worth, believe that Mark was speaking from his heart, and was under no compulsion from SGM HQ to address the congregation.</p>
<p><strong>Bless you Mark! May your tribe increase.</strong></p>
<p>If anyone from San Diego would like to weigh in, I&#8217;d be grateful if you would flesh out my sketchy details.</p></div>
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		<title>Polity Schmolity Revisited</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2010/01/23/polity-schmolity-revisited/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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This is a repost from Feb of last year. Some links are dead, because I&#8217;m nicer than I used to be. Hard to believe, I know&#8230;
I feel that this is timely because MCL&#8217;s issues are polity issues. The members are waiting to see what actions the leaders will take. It doesn&#8217;t seem very &#8220;joint heir-like&#8221; [...]]]></description>
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<p>This is a repost from Feb of last year. Some links are dead, because I&#8217;m nicer than I used to be. Hard to believe, I know&#8230;</p>
<p>I feel that this is timely because MCL&#8217;s issues are polity issues. The members are waiting to see what actions the leaders will take. It doesn&#8217;t seem very &#8220;joint heir-like&#8221; to me. MCL is not their church. You are not their people. It is clear that pastors in SGM have more authority than is granted by Scripture. This extra Biblical view of pastoral authority informs their polity. &#8220;Don&#8217;t talk to each other, talk to us&#8221;. When did Paul ever make such a statement? To whom were the epistles written to? The churches. Elders are rarely mentioned in the letters to the churches.</p>
<p>In the the next &#8220;we have decided&#8221; statement statement delivered to MLC, the &#8220;we&#8221; should refer to all of you. You are not children.</p>
<p>_______________________</p>
<p>We have a lot of new readers. It’s obviously impossible to read every post written since June of 08, so many new guests might form an opinion of this blog based on the topic at hand.</p>
<p>I left SGM in June of 06 because of their polity. I started this blog in June of 08 because of their polity.</p>
<p><strong>POLITY IS IMPORTANT. ALL of SGM’s problems flow from their unorthodox, unique-to-SGM polity. It informs their Eccesiology, Missiology, and is the reason for their truncated Gospel, as their polity only allows them to hear their own voice. Their polity has placed them on the outer fringe of orthodoxy, forcing them to use out of context or partial quotes to give the impression that Biblical scholars support their fringe view.</strong></p>
<p>In the recent SGC Chesapeake fiasco, both Keith and Gene appealed to SGM’s polity statement, rather than to Scripture. Very Roman, if you ask me.</p>
<p>By all means, read the SGM polity statement. Then, with the statement in hand, please read what we’ve had to say about SGM’s polity, and our lengthy review of their polity statement.</p>
<p>I’ve tried to find everything we’ve said about SGM polity and link to it in this post.</p>
<p>This gets a little tricky. Click on the words in green below to read a post, then click on the home tab to return here to click on the next post.</p>
<p>Enjoy!</p>
<p><a href="../2008/06/14/jerry-bridges-on-the-controller/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/14/jerry-bridges-on-the-controller/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/06/20/responding-to-leadership-in-sgm/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/20/responding-to-leadership-in-sgm/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/06/26/they-stand-in-the-very-stead-of-god/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/26/they-stand-in-the-very-stead-of-god/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/07/01/more-responsibilities-of-the-sheep/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/07/01/more-responsibilities-of-the-sheep/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/07/10/jesus-on-leadership/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/07/10/jesus-on-leadership/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/07/15/sgm-polity/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/07/15/sgm-polity/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/07/19/mick-jagger-and-cj-mahaney-on-leadership/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/07/19/mick-jagger-and-cj-mahaney-on-leadership/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/07/21/under-their-thumb/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/07/21/under-their-thumb/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/08/06/the-fruit-of-good-pastoring/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/08/06/the-fruit-of-good-pastoring/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/08/24/advice-to-the-lone-ranger/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/08/24/advice-to-the-lone-ranger/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/08/26/more-recommendations-for-cj/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/08/26/more-recommendations-for-cj/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/08/28/bible-doctrine-tastes-great-less-filling-burp/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/08/28/bible-doctrine-tastes-great-less-filling-burp/</a></p>
<p>The good stuff starts here….</p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/02/polity-episode-1-an-introduction-to-dave-harveys-phantom-menace/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/02/polity-episode-1-an-introduction-to-dave-harveys-phantom-menace/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/04/sovereign-grace-ministries-on-elders/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/04/sovereign-grace-ministries-on-elders/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/08/sovereign-grace-ministries-on-elders-2/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/08/sovereign-grace-ministries-on-elders-2/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/10/polity-episode-2-dave-harveys-quote-in-the-cloned-quote-wars/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/10/polity-episode-2-dave-harveys-quote-in-the-cloned-quote-wars/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/17/polity-episode-3-dave-harveys-big-a-little-a-and-the-revenge-of-the-systh/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/17/polity-episode-3-dave-harveys-big-a-little-a-and-the-revenge-of-the-systh/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/19/more-grudem-on-polity-and-apostles/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/19/more-grudem-on-polity-and-apostles/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/09/26/polity-episode-4-a-flimsy-hope-with-dave-harvey-a-new-hope-in-jesus-christ/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/09/26/polity-episode-4-a-flimsy-hope-with-dave-harvey-a-new-hope-in-jesus-christ/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/10/01/missiology-part-1-entering-the-minefield-of-the-world/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/10/01/missiology-part-1-entering-the-minefield-of-the-world/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/10/08/missiology-part-2-apostles-epistles-and-missions-oh-my/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/10/08/missiology-part-2-apostles-epistles-and-missions-oh-my/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/10/15/missiology-part-3-wayne-grudems-ministers-of-mercy-and-dave-harveys-apostles-in-authority/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/10/15/missiology-part-3-wayne-grudems-ministers-of-mercy-and-dave-harveys-apostles-in-authority/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/10/22/missiology-part-4-final-thoughts-on-the-true-source-of-apostolic-authority/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/10/22/missiology-part-4-final-thoughts-on-the-true-source-of-apostolic-authority/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/11/04/why-sovereign-grace-ministries-is-not-a-cult-the-exorcist-and-other-lighthearted-election-day-thoughts/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/11/04/why-sovereign-grace-ministries-is-not-a-cult-the-exorcist-and-other-lighthearted-election-day-thoughts/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2008/12/12/uh-oh-steve-shank-is-here/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/12/12/uh-oh-steve-shank-is-here/</a></p>
<p><a href="../2009/01/11/what-to-expect/">http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/01/11/what-to-expect/Polity Scholity Revisited<br />
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		<title>More From Metro</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2010/01/21/danny-and-benny-are-humble/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve received Danny&#8217;s email. Read points 5 and 6 very carefully. Notice what the evaluation team will and will not address.
&#8220;There are several issues in the list above that the rest of the leadership team would agree needs to be pursued&#8230;&#8221;
&#8220;However, there is significant disagreement with the other points listed&#8230;&#8221;
If the members I&#8217;ve communicated with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve received Danny&#8217;s email. Read points 5 and 6 very carefully. Notice what the evaluation team will and will not address.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">There are several issues in the list above that the rest of the leadership team would agree needs to be pursued&#8230;&#8221;</span></span></span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">&#8220;</span></span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">However, there is significant disagreement with the other points listed&#8230;&#8221;</span></span></span></em><!--StartFragment--></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">If the members I&#8217;ve communicated with are in any way indicative of the general feeling among the membership, it seems that &#8220;</span></span></span><em><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Helvetica,Arial;"><span style="font-size: 13px;">there is significant disagreement&#8221; <strong>between the leadership team and the members of MLC.</strong></span></span></span></em></p>
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		<title>Metro Life Church</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2010/01/09/metro-life-church/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 15:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With the recent events at Metro in Orlando, which is the Florida flagship SGM church, and the home of the apostle of the SE, I wanted to start a new thread. SGM knows exactly how I feel about the apostle Jones, and this is an area of discussion where I find it impossible to be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With the recent events at Metro in Orlando, which is the Florida flagship SGM church, and the home of the apostle of the SE, I wanted to start a new thread. SGM knows exactly how I feel about the apostle Jones, and this is an area of discussion where I find it impossible to be objective. I&#8217;ll use the first informational comment as the main post, and will move comments already posted into this thread.</p>
<p>Post by <strong>Dorothy is Leaving Oz on Jan 7:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Yes, Sigelman. I can. Just need a few days to process. Here is what I can get out.<br />
Legalism of Virginia Beach Repeats Itself in Orlando.</strong></p>
<p><strong> Pastor leaves staff, as in resigns and quits after 7 plus years. No immorality, nothing inappropriate. He not only leaves Metro but SGM as well.</strong> <strong>Church is in tremendous pain.  This man is more than loved here.</strong></p>
<p><strong>On one hand Danny Jones and Dave  Harvey  praised Todd  and wanted to support him hearing from God to leave Metro and SGM, and with the other hand - backhandedly -condemned him for not wanting to stay and go through an examination process with the rest of the pastoral staff.  &lt; Staff infighting over the past year demanded big guns from SGM to step in to help bring stabilization back in November, so we were told in nicer terms.&gt; Guess Todd said no. Why go through one more kangaroo court?  Why go through any more pain? It certainly didn’t work  with Brent until enough people got hurt.  Something no one will talk about. </strong></p>
<p><strong> I am sorry Dave H, but the lame excuse that we are all sinners and people in a church can expect to get  hurt is a POOR EXCUSE FOR POOR MANIPULATIVE LEADERSHIP. &lt; you know, when you walk in to the office and meet with Benny over anything ,you are told what you have to say is full of pride and or sin?  &gt; We get lambasted when we sin and are declared unusable vessels but that’s YOUR excuse when LEADERSHIP sins against the church?  We can EXPECT it?  P.S. they continue leading in spite of the pain they inflict.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Danny made like it was a big surprise that Bob K and Dave H were there tonight.  SOMEBODY CALLED THEM HERE! Like they really just showed up without letting anyone know they were coming? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
Danny made like they did not see  Todd’s  leaving was coming.I don’t buy that either.  He got tired of beating a dead horse  like the rest of us on the way out the door.  Maybe because they are all yes men protecting their jobs, homes, and lifestyles.  Maybe Todd has an eternal prospective and is more concerned about following God than being a yes man, having a new house and  job that he loved. Integrity! Todd still has his intact. He looses it all by resigning. Professionally and personally. God will honor that!</strong></p>
<p><strong>There is only so much you can say until you just give up.  Guess Todd did.  I am sure for the sake of his family and own mental and spiritual health it was time. Personally,I am still waiting for answers from meetings I had with Benny and then with  Danny over 12 weeks ago. I am done waiting. I am  leaving Oz. I am not the only one.</strong></p>
<p><strong> Todd was  the only pastor on the staff with any integrity or guts to call a spade a spade and confront this group of blind men, as well as go with the wounded sheep to Danny Jones and be a third ear. Todd was the only one with any real joy and real grace.  Todd handed in his letter of resignation on Sunday, hence emergency meeting  three days later, Wednesday night Jan 6 th. Unfortunately, the wrong one pastor left. The score?  Jocks- 100/ Worship ministry-0.  Flock left bloody in the aisles. Film at 11. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Dave H and Bob K in the house. A bit too late guys!  Dave attempts to walk us through  with a mini sermon ” Don’t Waste Your Departing”. Don’t even ask.<br />
He even tried to inject some humor. There was nothing funny about it or this hurtful situation. Then he tried to re-envision the church with recommitment and reflect on why you came to Metro to begin with. It was a poor attempt of damage control. The whole night was. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Now watch more people bail out. Last straw for many, myself included.  I am a emotional mess. I have been a part PDI/SGM most of my adult life ….a lifetime.  I can not remember the last time I cried like this. The thought of starting someplace else is devastating, but I can no longer stay. Details later, if I can even deal with repeating them. </strong></p>
<p><strong>Virgina Beach repeats itself in Orlando. Legalism has destroyed another church. Satan has another hay day. Blinders still remain on Metro’s remaining staff under the guise of being faithful, loyal, accountable and teachable. It is time for the remaining pastoral staff to face the truth. Self seeking divisiveness is in your midst. What is so funny is Benny thinks no one notices. Benny, we all notice. You have an agenda and it is being the ruling reigning King at Metro Life Church by whatever means.  You’ve played this game before.  You know what not to do. You obviously are playing better ball.  This  whole thing stinks. I am asking you all not to reveal. Please  please pray.  Dorothy.</strong></div>
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		<title>Merry CHRISTmas!</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/12/25/merry-christmas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 14:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carole</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jim and I hope and pray that your holidays are filled with joy, peace, and love&#8230;  love, first and foremost, from our wonderful Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Whose birth we celebrate today!  May you be richly blessed today and every day in the coming year!
Grace and Peace,
Jim and Carole


Hark the herald angels sing
&#8220;Glory to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>Jim and I hope and pray that your holidays are filled with joy, peace, and love&#8230;  love, first and foremost, from our wonderful Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Whose birth we celebrate today!  May you be richly blessed today and every day in the coming year!</strong></em></span></h4>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>Grace and Peace,</strong></em></span></h4>
<h4><span style="color: #008000;"><em><strong>Jim and Carole</strong></em></span></h4>
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<h4><em><strong><span style="color: #993300;">Hark the herald angels sing<br />
&#8220;Glory to the newborn King!<br />
Peace on earth and mercy mild<br />
God and sinners reconciled&#8221;<br />
Joyful, all ye nations rise<br />
Join the triumph of the skies<br />
With the angelic host proclaim:<br />
&#8220;Christ is born in Bethlehem&#8221;<br />
Hark! The herald angels sing<br />
&#8220;Glory to the newborn King!&#8221;<br />
Christ by highest heav&#8217;n adored<br />
Christ the everlasting Lord!<br />
Late in time behold Him come<br />
Offspring of a Virgin&#8217;s womb<br />
Veiled in flesh the Godhead see<br />
Hail the incarnate Deity<br />
Pleased as man with man to dwell<br />
Jesus, our Emmanuel<br />
</span><span style="color: #993300;">Hark! The herald angels sing<br />
&#8220;Glory to the newborn King!&#8221;<br />
Hail the heav&#8217;n-born Prince of Peace!<br />
Hail the Son of Righteousness!<br />
Light and life to all He brings<br />
Ris&#8217;n with healing in His wings<br />
Mild He lays His glory by<br />
Born that man no more may die<br />
Born to raise the sons of earth<br />
Born to give them second birth<br />
</span><span style="color: #993300;">Hark! The herald angels sing<br />
&#8220;Glory to the newborn King!&#8221;</span></strong></em></h4>
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		<title>Out of the Frying Pan and into the Fire or Happy Days are Here Again?</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/12/05/out-of-the-frying-pan-and-into-the-fire-or-happy-days-are-here-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 17:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The former Sr P of North Denver, who retired, was evaluated, or whatever version you heard had quite the track record.
Now, the very publicly honored new Sr P rides in on his white horse to save the day.
Insiders are aware that this man is potentially dangerous, and some early reports have come in that Glynn&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The former Sr P of North Denver, who retired, was evaluated, or whatever version you heard had quite the track record.</p>
<p>Now, the very publicly honored new Sr P rides in on his white horse to save the day.</p>
<p>Insiders are aware that this man is potentially dangerous, and some early reports have come in that Glynn&#8217;s defective counseling MO hasn&#8217;t changed, and the good people of N. Denver are now the unfortunate recipients of Glynn&#8217;s &#8220;wisdom&#8221;.</p>
<p>Would anyone from the wild west like to comment?</p>
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		<title>Signs you may be covering for a pastor who abuses the flock spiritually</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/11/08/signs-you-may-be-covering-for-a-pastor-who-abuses-the-flock-spiritually/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 15:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read this on survivors. Food for thought&#8230;

You’ve noticed a pattern of people leaving the fellowship, but don’t ask your pastor about it and don’t delve into the reasons behind the exits.
You’ve seen your pastor act in retribution for slights or criticism by removing people from ministries, publicly or privately shaming them or refusing to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">I read this on <a href="http://www.sgmsurvivors.com" target="_blank">survivors</a>. Food for thought&#8230;</p>
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<li>You’ve noticed a pattern of people leaving the fellowship, but don’t ask your pastor about it and don’t delve into the reasons behind the exits.</li>
<li>You’ve seen your pastor act in retribution for slights or criticism by removing people from ministries, publicly or privately shaming them or refusing to listen to them.</li>
<li>You excuse your pastor’s wrong behavior: he’s young, he doesn’t understand the people who are unhappy, he has a little trouble relating to people, he’ll grow out of it, I’m probably not seeing the whole picture, God will show him his weaknesses and he’ll handle things better soon.</li>
<li>You find yourself blaming victims. You justify harsh behavior by your pastor by focusing on the sins of those who are shamed or shunned or criticized or punished.</li>
<li>You feel that to protect the name of Christ in your community you need to keep secret the alarming behavior by your pastor or leaders in the church.</li>
<li>You feel it’s your duty to think the best of your pastor, no matter what charges are brought against him, but you don’t extend the same courtesy to those who feel they’ve been abused or harmed.</li>
<li>You feel it’s okay for your pastor to build up your church by cutting down other churches with “inferior” doctrines or practices, but it’s not okay for anyone to question decisions by church leaders if it looks like criticism.</li>
<li>You enjoy being flattered by your pastor and seek to please him often. You spend a lot of time in church flattering and being flattered.</li>
<li>You fear being criticized by your pastor or having your special ministry taken away.</li>
<li>You’ve seen your pastor flatter those he can use and then later turn on them.</li>
<li>You would feel uncomfortable asking to see financial records of the church, and you just assume that they are being used in a godly manner.</li>
<li>You feel constantly pressured to help more in church or to give more, or both.</li>
<li>Going to church often seems like a burden, but you don’t want anyone to know you feel that way.</li>
<li>You have criticized other churches or individuals with your pastor.</li>
<li>You like the feeling of being in the “inner circle,” and you feel you have the pastor’s confidence.</li>
<li>You feel superior to Christians who don’t witness as much as you, or who don’t practice their faith as well as you, or who don’t emphasize certain doctrines like you do.</li>
<li>You feel that no one quite understands the scriptures, delivers sermons or reaches out to the weak and poor like your pastor does.</li>
<li>You spend much time defending your pastor, either in your own mind or to others.</li>
<li>You don’t like to admit it, but you often spend more time thinking (whether positively, negatively or both) about your pastor or leaders than you do about God.</li>
<li>You are exhausted.</li>
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		<title>Refuge Mobile</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/11/01/refuge-mobile/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 15:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a mobile version of this site, for those who are interested. I&#8217;m not using an auto direct for mobile users, as I think the site is easy to read as is on an iphone, but want to offer it as a mobile option. It&#8217;s a very simple freebie thing. URL below&#8230;
http://sgmrefuge.mofuse.mobi/
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a mobile version of this site, for those who are interested. I&#8217;m not using an auto direct for mobile users, as I think the site is easy to read as is on an iphone, but want to offer it as a mobile option. It&#8217;s a very simple freebie thing. URL below&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://sgmrefuge.mofuse.mobi/">http://sgmrefuge.mofuse.mobi/</a></p>
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		<title>back in bidness&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/10/25/back-in-bidness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 15:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[..whatever that is these days. Sorry for the temporary lock-out. Vacation was awesome.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>..whatever that is these days. Sorry for the temporary lock-out. Vacation was <em>awesome</em>.</p>
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		<title>We&#8217;re outta here&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/10/16/were-outta-here/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 18:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[
&#8230;just temporarily. Going away for a week to celebrate our 30th anniversary (God had been way too good to me!)
I&#8217;ve closed comments, as I&#8217;ve heard the internet is full of crazy people.   
See ya in a week or so.
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<p>&#8230;just temporarily. Going away for a week to celebrate our 30th anniversary (God had been <em>way</em> too good to me!)</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve closed comments, as I&#8217;ve heard the internet is full of crazy people.  <img src='http://sgmrefuge.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>See ya in a week or so.</p>
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		<title>Survivors</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/09/26/survivors/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:33:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kris had done an incredible job transcribing and evaluating CJ current teaching about members responsibility within SGM.
This is a must read.
Part 1
Part 2
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kris had done an incredible job transcribing and evaluating CJ <em>current</em> teaching about members responsibility within SGM.</p>
<p>This is a must read.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sgmsurvivors.com/?p=1134">Part 1</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.sgmsurvivors.com/?p=1149">Part 2</a></p>
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		<title>So Gilbert&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/09/22/so-gilbert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 15:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230; how do you feel about the family meeting?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; how do you feel about the family meeting?</p>
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		<title>A Scandalous Freedom</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/09/15/a-scandalous-freedom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Still wounded said:
&#8220;I just want to recommend a good book called A Scandalous Freedom by Steve Brown. He is reformed, but he just seems so…so…FREE!! And I love his quotes. Here are some:
“When the requirement for acceptance in any particular group is to think certain thoughts, to act in certain ways, ad to fit in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Still wounded said:</p>
<p>&#8220;I just want to recommend a good book called A Scandalous Freedom by Steve Brown. He is reformed, but he just seems so…so…FREE!! And I love his quotes. Here are some:</p>
<p>“When the requirement for acceptance in any particular group is to think certain thoughts, to act in certain ways, ad to fit in certain molds – and we don’t hink or act that way or fit the mold- we tend to fake it. We put on a mask that says, “I’m just like you. Now will you please love me and accept me?”</p>
<p>“The greatest tragedy of the church is that, in many cases, the most dishonest hour of the week is the hour we spend at church.”</p>
<p>“I’m a Presybeterian, and we believe in a doctine called ‘radical and pervasive depravity.’ If we find any depravity, however, we kick you out!” (I love that one – or you could say instead of kicking out, how ’bout beating up?).</p>
<p>“Freedom threatens religious people because it takes away their leverage and makes it more difficult for them to maintain control.”&#8221;</p>
<p>Dennis posted a link to Steve Brown&#8217;s Scandalous Freedom podcast.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve posted the link in the sidebar and can&#8217;t think of a better book to recommend to our readers.</p>
<p><a href="http://stevebrownetc.com/category/podcasts/scandalous-freedom/" target="_blank">Listen here</a></p>
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		<title>Update&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/09/06/update/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 22:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		
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Some updates for those who are interested&#8230;
I&#8217;ve been afraid to upgrade WordPress, as I&#8217;ve broken the blog before. We were still using the original version we launched with over a year ago. There&#8217;s been a number of attack warnings in the blogosphere, telling people like me to upgrade NOW. I paid someone to do it [...]]]></description>
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<p>Some updates for those who are interested&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been afraid to upgrade WordPress, as I&#8217;ve broken the blog before. We were still using the original version we launched with over a year ago. There&#8217;s been a number of attack warnings in the blogosphere, telling people like me to upgrade NOW. I paid someone to do it for me, and hopefully, things will load faster and fewer comments will go in to moderation. Hopefully&#8230;</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t posted stats since March, and thought what the hey&#8230; someone might be interested. Here&#8217;s what I find really cool-there are rules of blogging. Best practices. Post on a regular basis, interact with commenters, welcome new commenters, read your own blog, etc. I don&#8217;t have time to be a &#8220;good blogger&#8221;, yet our numbers are still strong. It&#8217;s very encouraging to start something that continues without your involvement. In our worst month of the year we&#8217;re read by over 32K individuals? Crazy stuff&#8230;</p>
<p>Here are the stats for the last 5 months, in pageview/unique visitor format.</p>
<p>April-127721/41961</p>
<p>May-117487/38990</p>
<p>June-102474/36608</p>
<p>July-93202/32488</p>
<p>August-118811/38024</p>
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		<title>Quick note&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/08/30/quick-note/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 21:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1) We tried to drum up interest in a little letter writing campaign a while back. Some who participated have sent me positive reports. It&#8217;s not too late to join in. jim@sgmrefuge.com
2) I think that Frank Viola&#8217;s Organic Church books are helpful. not perfect, but helpful. I strongly disagree with the general premise of his [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) We tried to drum up interest in a little letter writing campaign a while back. Some who participated have sent me positive reports. It&#8217;s not too late to join in. jim@sgmrefuge.com</p>
<p>2) I think that Frank Viola&#8217;s Organic Church books are helpful. not perfect, but helpful. I strongly disagree with the general premise of his last book, From Eternity to Here, but that wasn&#8217;t an Organic Church book. His next book is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Finding-Organic-Church-Comprehensive-Communities/dp/143476866X/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1251666136&amp;sr=8-5" target="_blank">&#8220;Finding Organic Church: A Comprehensive Guide to Starting and Sustaining Authentic Christian Communities&#8221;</a>. Frank has requested that everyone who is interested order from Amazon on September 1, as this boosts Amazon ratings, drawing attention to the topic. I&#8217;m in&#8230;</p>
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		<title>“one of the largest and strongest church plantings in Sovereign Grace Ministries’ history”</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/08/21/%e2%80%9cone-of-the-largest-and-strongest-church-plantings-in-sovereign-grace-ministries%e2%80%99-history%e2%80%9d/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 03:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[..will have it&#8217;s last meeting on August 30th.
Remember this post? The whole deal smelled like a dead fish then, and now it&#8217;s belly up.
Proof that you can use all the right words and still be completely man centered.
Little kingdoms of little men. They all fall down.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>..will have it&#8217;s last meeting on August 30th.</p>
<p>Remember <a href="http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/08/13/brent-detwiler-is-just-like-jim-elliot/">this post</a>? The whole deal smelled like a dead fish then, and now it&#8217;s belly up.</p>
<p>Proof that you can use all the right words and still be completely man centered.</p>
<p>Little kingdoms of little men. They all fall down.</p>
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		<title>That&#8217;s that..</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/07/27/bye-brent/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 18:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Never having been one who was afraid to say &#8220;I told you so&#8220;, I&#8217;m happy to report that Brent has resigned.
You did the right thing, Brent.
I see this as SGM&#8217;s system working, although very slowing in this case. I&#8217;m sketchy on the details, but I hope that SOMEONE in SGM&#8217;s leadership followed Paul&#8217;s instructions to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never having been one who was afraid to say &#8220;<a href="http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/05/23/sgm-is-boring/" target="_blank">I told you so</a>&#8220;, I&#8217;m happy to report that Brent has resigned.</p>
<p>You did the right thing, Brent.</p>
<p>I see this as SGM&#8217;s system working, although <a href="http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/12/24/gene-emerson/" target="_blank">very slowing</a> in this case. I&#8217;m sketchy on the details, but I hope that SOMEONE in SGM&#8217;s leadership followed Paul&#8217;s instructions to Timothy. (<a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=1+Tim+5%3A19-20" class="bibleref" title="ESV 1Tim 5:19-20">1 Tim 5:19-20</a>)</p>
<p>UPDATE-July 28.</p>
<p>1.&#8221;I told you so&#8221; is not accurate, as Brent will continue to be a member of Grace, which is a SGM church, therefore, he did not &#8220;leave SGM&#8221;, but has resigned as a pastor.</p>
<p>2. I&#8217;m told that <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=1+Tim+5%3A19-20" class="bibleref" title="ESV 1Tim 5:19-20">1 Tim 5:19-20</a> was followed.</p>
<p>3. I&#8217;m told that &#8220;moving slowing&#8221; on SGM&#8217;s part is an evidence of reform. While leaders within SGM have been appealing to Brent for some time, SGM did not become officially involved until the leadership team of Grace appealed to SGM for help. After the appeal was made, they actually moved quite quickly, given the scope of the task before them. They interviewed a large number of people, and at the end of their evaluation, they recommended that Brent resign. Brent accepted their recommendation.</p>
<p>I promised our readers over a year ago that I would expose abuse of authority within SGM. I promised that I would (loudly) call for reform. I also promised our readers that should reform occur, I would chronicle evidence of reform with a grateful heart.</p>
<p>I commend the local leadership of Grace, the SGM pastors who were involved in this endeavor, and I commend Brent for doing the right thing.</p>
<p>I can only see this as one of many very positive signs of change within SGM. God is good!</p>
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		<title>FAQ Continued&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 19:41:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[My last post obviously did not answer the often asked question, &#8220;what church should I go to now?&#8221;.
There is no easy answer to this question, so I normally tailor my response to the one asking. Clocked out Dad who has no interest in being the primary educator in your children&#8217;s spiritual life? Just pay the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My last post obviously did not answer the often asked question, &#8220;what church should I go to now?&#8221;.</p>
<p>There is no easy answer to this question, so I normally tailor my response to the one asking. Clocked out Dad who has no interest in being the primary educator in your children&#8217;s spiritual life? Just pay the pros to do it for you. For a meager 10% of your annual salary, your children can benefit from 1st Whatever&#8217;s wonderful children&#8217;s ministry. Don&#8217;t worry about the teens, as they&#8217;re sure to have an uber-cool youth pastor who can teach your teens how uber-cool it is to be a Christian. Ignore the verified data available about how &#8220;successful&#8221; these programs are, just pay your dues and leave the heavy lifting to the pros.</p>
<p>An additional benefit will be that you won&#8217;t even have to think for yourself. Just show up and hear the 45 minute lecture, prepared just for you. You know, just like the Christians in the new testament did.</p>
<p>Sadly, I think this is the right answer for the majority of American Christians. Pay your dues, enjoy the &#8220;services&#8221; provided.</p>
<p>Food for thought-why does <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=1+Cor+14" class="bibleref" title="ESV 1Cor 14">1 Cor 14</a>, which is the most descriptive (and prescriptive) example we have in Scripture of an assembly of believers bear no resemblance to what most of us do every Sunday?</p>
<p>More food for thought-we are clearly told in <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=Hebrews+10%3A25" class="bibleref" title="ESV Hebrews 10:25">Hebrews 10:25</a> that we must gather together. How are we supposed to fulfill the reason we gather together (<a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=Hebrews+10%3A24" class="bibleref" title="ESV Hebrews 10:24">Hebrews 10:24</a>) while we are looking at the back of each other&#8217;s heads while listening to a professional speaker give a lecture?</p>
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		<title>FAQ-&#8221;Jim, what church should I go to now?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2009/07/13/faq-jim-what-church-should-i-go-to-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 12:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Part One&#8230;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://stevebrownetc.com/2007/09/podcasts/the-brown-sessions/revolution-george-barna/" target="_blank">Part One&#8230;</a></p>
<p><em>(Listen to the audio</em>)</p>
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