<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Trust Your Leaders</title>
	<atom:link href="http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/</link>
	<description>a haven for castaways, a call for reform</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:07:56 -0400</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4</generator>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>By: Juli</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-5103</link>
		<dc:creator>Juli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 00:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-5103</guid>
		<description>MingWai,

I recently (New Year&#039;s Eve) heard about this pastor and the church there is So Cal for the first time.  A brother in the Lord told me about him and was impressed. I hadn&#039;t had a chance to go check it out, but he said some of his sermons were on YouTube..

thanks for reminding us that not ALL leaders are wolves in shepherd&#039;s clothing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MingWai,</p>
<p>I recently (New Year&#8217;s Eve) heard about this pastor and the church there is So Cal for the first time.  A brother in the Lord told me about him and was impressed. I hadn&#8217;t had a chance to go check it out, but he said some of his sermons were on YouTube..</p>
<p>thanks for reminding us that not ALL leaders are wolves in shepherd&#8217;s clothing.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ellie</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-5100</link>
		<dc:creator>Ellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 23:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-5100</guid>
		<description>Good article, MingWai! Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good article, MingWai! Thanks!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: MingWai</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-5095</link>
		<dc:creator>MingWai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 21:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-5095</guid>
		<description>Wouldn&#039;t it be nice to follow an example like this?  *sigh*

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.preaching.com/resources/in_ministry/11581216/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.preaching.com/resources/in_ministry/11581216/&lt;/a&gt;

&quot;This is one of the best churches I have ever heard of when it comes to money…the stories about what they do with money is excellent. Francis Chan travels all over the country and either won’t accept or gives away most of his honorariums. He drives a 96 Subaru. One of his pastors sold his giant 3,000 sq. ft. house and moved into an apartment because he didn’t want to waste money. During a fundraising campaign they got so convicted for asking for so much money to build a new church, they decided to cut millions out of the budget by not building a roof. They decided because they are in So Cal they can just have an outdoor stadium and save some money. The church posts all of the pastor’s salaries in a public place for anyone to see. No one makes over $60/k, which in Southern California is ridiculous! Wish more churches were more like this with their money. &quot;
-The Reformer on City Business Church 

I&#039;ve been following Francis Chan and how God has been using and continues to use him at Cornerstone for the last couple years. It&#039;s been incredible to watch God provide for them as they seek to love others as much as themselves. 

Anyways yes, sorry for resurrecting this old topic but anyways yes. I love their heart and passion for God and others.

And I hope you enjoy the article. =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it be nice to follow an example like this?  *sigh*</p>
<p><a href="http://www.preaching.com/resources/in_ministry/11581216/" rel="nofollow">http://www.preaching.com/resou...../11581216/</a></p>
<p>&#8220;This is one of the best churches I have ever heard of when it comes to money…the stories about what they do with money is excellent. Francis Chan travels all over the country and either won’t accept or gives away most of his honorariums. He drives a 96 Subaru. One of his pastors sold his giant 3,000 sq. ft. house and moved into an apartment because he didn’t want to waste money. During a fundraising campaign they got so convicted for asking for so much money to build a new church, they decided to cut millions out of the budget by not building a roof. They decided because they are in So Cal they can just have an outdoor stadium and save some money. The church posts all of the pastor’s salaries in a public place for anyone to see. No one makes over $60/k, which in Southern California is ridiculous! Wish more churches were more like this with their money. &#8221;<br />
-The Reformer on City Business Church </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been following Francis Chan and how God has been using and continues to use him at Cornerstone for the last couple years. It&#8217;s been incredible to watch God provide for them as they seek to love others as much as themselves. </p>
<p>Anyways yes, sorry for resurrecting this old topic but anyways yes. I love their heart and passion for God and others.</p>
<p>And I hope you enjoy the article. =)</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Stunned</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-3017</link>
		<dc:creator>Stunned</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 17:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-3017</guid>
		<description>Thanks, that makes sense why you do it, then.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, that makes sense why you do it, then.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-3013</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 13:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-3013</guid>
		<description>Stunned-

Hi. I use SGMspeak when possible on purpose. Ellie posted the definition above-

The doctrine of the &lt;strong&gt;clarity of Scripture&lt;/strong&gt; (often called the “perspicuity of Scripture”) teaches that “the meanings of the text can be clear to the ordinary reader, that God uses the text of the Bible to communicate His person and will.” 1) “The witness of the Church throughout the ages is that ordinary people, who approach it in faith and humility, will be able to understand what the Bible is getting at, even if they meet with particular points of difficulty here and there.”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stunned-</p>
<p>Hi. I use SGMspeak when possible on purpose. Ellie posted the definition above-</p>
<p>The doctrine of the <strong>clarity of Scripture</strong> (often called the “perspicuity of Scripture”) teaches that “the meanings of the text can be clear to the ordinary reader, that God uses the text of the Bible to communicate His person and will.” 1) “The witness of the Church throughout the ages is that ordinary people, who approach it in faith and humility, will be able to understand what the Bible is getting at, even if they meet with particular points of difficulty here and there.”</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Stunned</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-3010</link>
		<dc:creator>Stunned</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 12:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-3010</guid>
		<description>Wow, late posting on my part or what?...  Jim, hi, I&#039;ve never addressed you directly so I thought I would say, &quot;Hi.&quot;  So Jim, &quot;perspicuity&quot;?  Ouch, that makes my head hurt.  The regulars on this board may like big words, but this lil&#039; ole brain of mine needs you to speak much more slowly and with simple words.  Hand gestures may be helpful, too (like when you talk to someone who speaks a different language).  I&#039;m in the Ivy all day long but I is a simple person.  ;-)  

That&#039;s what I liked about &quot;the early days&quot; of my SGM experience.  Back then the pastors used simple words that all could understand.  Now they seem to think they are doing God&#039;s work by using lingo not used by the average American and speaking above the average vocabulary level (a 12 year olds vocab to be exact).  I just never saw Jesus doing that.  (Not that I speak ancient Greek.)  But he seemed to use stories that related to farmers, fisherman, regular folk.  Ah, how I love my savior.  

Please, don&#039;t get me wrong.  This is just some teasing from a complete stranger who came in here without even having the manners to introduce herself properly... now that I think about it... I still can&#039;t figure the proper way.  If anyone has any suggestions, please let me know.  

Thank you and carry on with your big words while I go check my dictionary. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, late posting on my part or what?&#8230;  Jim, hi, I&#8217;ve never addressed you directly so I thought I would say, &#8220;Hi.&#8221;  So Jim, &#8220;perspicuity&#8221;?  Ouch, that makes my head hurt.  The regulars on this board may like big words, but this lil&#8217; ole brain of mine needs you to speak much more slowly and with simple words.  Hand gestures may be helpful, too (like when you talk to someone who speaks a different language).  I&#8217;m in the Ivy all day long but I is a simple person.  <img src='http://sgmrefuge.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>That&#8217;s what I liked about &#8220;the early days&#8221; of my SGM experience.  Back then the pastors used simple words that all could understand.  Now they seem to think they are doing God&#8217;s work by using lingo not used by the average American and speaking above the average vocabulary level (a 12 year olds vocab to be exact).  I just never saw Jesus doing that.  (Not that I speak ancient Greek.)  But he seemed to use stories that related to farmers, fisherman, regular folk.  Ah, how I love my savior.  </p>
<p>Please, don&#8217;t get me wrong.  This is just some teasing from a complete stranger who came in here without even having the manners to introduce herself properly&#8230; now that I think about it&#8230; I still can&#8217;t figure the proper way.  If anyone has any suggestions, please let me know.  </p>
<p>Thank you and carry on with your big words while I go check my dictionary. </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ellie</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-632</link>
		<dc:creator>Ellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 15:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-632</guid>
		<description>Dan,
VERY interesting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan,<br />
VERY interesting!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-631</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 14:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-631</guid>
		<description>I was interested to get the following email article from Dr Sam Storms;


&lt;em&gt;&quot;When one first reads 2 Corinthians 11:7-12, it sounds outlandish, virtually incomprehensible. Paul preached the gospel of God in Corinth for free. He refused to accept payment for his ministry in that city. He labored tirelessly with his hands to support himself so that he need never take up an offering after proclaiming the truth. And they accused him of committing a sin in doing so! As I said, outlandish and incomprehensible!

&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;em&gt;Paul&#039;s opponents may have recognized that they were at a distinct disadvantage to him by accepting money for their labors in Corinth and wanted the opportunity to boast that they had ministered on the same terms as he. They no doubt tried to goad him into altering his policy and accepting monetary support. In this way they hoped to eliminate the embarrassing difference between them and him. But Paul refused to yield and thus undercut their desire to be considered his equal with regard to financial support (v. 12).&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;em&gt;One thing is for sure: Paul was not for sale! The appeal of money was as powerful then as now. The promise of what it could obtain was alluring and difficult to resist. But such was the depth of Paul&#039;s satisfaction in Christ that the happiness he might otherwise have obtained from great wealth was overmatched and overcome&quot;.&lt;/em&gt;

&lt;em&gt;Since teachers, philosophers, and orators in ancient times were expected to charge for their services in proportion to their skill and gifting, Paul&#039;s refusal to accept financial support from the Corinthians exposed him to the accusation of being a fraud. The intruders had put Paul in a no-win situation: if he refuses remuneration he betrays his own awareness of inauthenticity, incompetence, and lack of authority; but if he receives remuneration it is because he is greedy and thus is guilty of peddling the gospel. Add to this the fact that manual labor, such as tent-making (Paul&#039;s chosen trade), was viewed by the Greeks with disdain&quot;.
&lt;/em&gt;
Interesting hey?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was interested to get the following email article from Dr Sam Storms;</p>
<p><em>&#8220;When one first reads <a href="http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?go=Go&amp;q=2+Corinthians+11%3A7-12" class="bibleref" title="ESV 2Corinthians 11:7-12">2 Corinthians 11:7-12</a>, it sounds outlandish, virtually incomprehensible. Paul preached the gospel of God in Corinth for free. He refused to accept payment for his ministry in that city. He labored tirelessly with his hands to support himself so that he need never take up an offering after proclaiming the truth. And they accused him of committing a sin in doing so! As I said, outlandish and incomprehensible!</p>
<p></em><br />
<em>Paul&#8217;s opponents may have recognized that they were at a distinct disadvantage to him by accepting money for their labors in Corinth and wanted the opportunity to boast that they had ministered on the same terms as he. They no doubt tried to goad him into altering his policy and accepting monetary support. In this way they hoped to eliminate the embarrassing difference between them and him. But Paul refused to yield and thus undercut their desire to be considered his equal with regard to financial support (v. 12).</em><br />
<em>One thing is for sure: Paul was not for sale! The appeal of money was as powerful then as now. The promise of what it could obtain was alluring and difficult to resist. But such was the depth of Paul&#8217;s satisfaction in Christ that the happiness he might otherwise have obtained from great wealth was overmatched and overcome&#8221;.</em></p>
<p><em>Since teachers, philosophers, and orators in ancient times were expected to charge for their services in proportion to their skill and gifting, Paul&#8217;s refusal to accept financial support from the Corinthians exposed him to the accusation of being a fraud. The intruders had put Paul in a no-win situation: if he refuses remuneration he betrays his own awareness of inauthenticity, incompetence, and lack of authority; but if he receives remuneration it is because he is greedy and thus is guilty of peddling the gospel. Add to this the fact that manual labor, such as tent-making (Paul&#8217;s chosen trade), was viewed by the Greeks with disdain&#8221;.<br />
</em><br />
Interesting hey?!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-621</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:47:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-621</guid>
		<description>It was JB. He has been very serious with me (in a good way) a number of times.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was JB. He has been very serious with me (in a good way) a number of times.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: SGMsingle</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-620</link>
		<dc:creator>SGMsingle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-620</guid>
		<description>Jim,

If the guy you mentioned in #34 is JB, he does joke around a lot, but if you ask him to get serious, he will. I suspect there may have been some seriousness to the </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jim,</p>
<p>If the guy you mentioned in #34 is JB, he does joke around a lot, but if you ask him to get serious, he will. I suspect there may have been some seriousness to the</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-619</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-619</guid>
		<description>Err....Travis?

I meant to say-good to see you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Err&#8230;.Travis?</p>
<p>I meant to say-good to see you!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-618</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 19:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-618</guid>
		<description>Travis!

It&#039;s about time you showed your face here</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Travis!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s about time you showed your face here</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Travis Seitler</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-614</link>
		<dc:creator>Travis Seitler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-614</guid>
		<description>DB said, &lt;i&gt;&quot;We couldn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DB said, <i>&#8220;We couldn</i></p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: A Kindred Spirit</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-613</link>
		<dc:creator>A Kindred Spirit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 17:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-613</guid>
		<description>I think this is the &quot;VERY&quot; reason you can download their messages, as well as many other ministries&#039; messages for free.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is the &#8220;VERY&#8221; reason you can download their messages, as well as many other ministries&#8217; messages for free.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Steve240</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-612</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve240</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 17:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-612</guid>
		<description>One example of &quot;double dipping&quot; that happened at least in SG&#039;s &quot;TAG&quot; days was that they would pay both Larry and C.J. a commission based on their cassette tape sales.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One example of &#8220;double dipping&#8221; that happened at least in SG&#8217;s &#8220;TAG&#8221; days was that they would pay both Larry and C.J. a commission based on their cassette tape sales.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Ellie</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-611</link>
		<dc:creator>Ellie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-611</guid>
		<description>:)

1.
clearness or lucidity, as of a statement.
2.
the quality of being perspicuous.


</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://sgmrefuge.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>1.<br />
clearness or lucidity, as of a statement.<br />
2.<br />
the quality of being perspicuous.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: canary</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-609</link>
		<dc:creator>canary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-609</guid>
		<description>Ellie,

Concerning your post #24, thanks for the in-depth definition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ellie,</p>
<p>Concerning your post #24, thanks for the in-depth definition.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: canary</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-607</link>
		<dc:creator>canary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-607</guid>
		<description>DB,

What is so wonderful about the Lord is that He redeems our mistakes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DB,</p>
<p>What is so wonderful about the Lord is that He redeems our mistakes.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-606</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:52:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-606</guid>
		<description>These stories are such an encouragement to give out of love instead of duty. I cannot believe that I had been captivated by an OT teaching for so long and never realized what was going on. Thanks to everyone, and most importantly to the Holy Spirit, for this new revelation. The mystery of God&#039;s Word became a little bit clearer to me because of this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These stories are such an encouragement to give out of love instead of duty. I cannot believe that I had been captivated by an OT teaching for so long and never realized what was going on. Thanks to everyone, and most importantly to the Holy Spirit, for this new revelation. The mystery of God&#8217;s Word became a little bit clearer to me because of this.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: DB</title>
		<link>http://sgmrefuge.com/2008/06/28/trust-your-leaders/comment-page-1/#comment-602</link>
		<dc:creator>DB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 14:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://sgmrefuge.com/?p=26#comment-602</guid>
		<description>I have a lot of trouble with the self serving tithe teaching. I must admit that the pastor of our current church, who is usually very grace-oriented teaches the same tithe teaching.

It drives me batty. When we went to our PDI church, we were dirt poor and tithed faithfully up until we were disfellowshipped. We couldn&#039;t afford to take our kids to the dentist and one of them actually endured an abcessed tooth, but we couldn&#039;t afford the dentist but we were tithing faithfully.

They will inevitably(sp) during a tithing sermon, tell you to put 
God to the test (because the Bible says to,) and dare Him to bless you (or some such nonsense.)

I am here to say that the minute we stopped tithing legalistically and started using the money that God had given us to take care of our family and *give* to the church, our finances have prospered tremendously. 

I think this is a heart issue. I give what I give to the church willingly and with a generous heart. I believe our primary responsibility is to our children and elderly parents. 

And to answer the question that is being asked in the title of this post, no, I do not trust my leaders blindly and I would run far away from leadership that encouraged blind faith in anyone but God Himself.

I was in serious error to allow my children to suffer to fulfil the tenents of legalistic teaching.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a lot of trouble with the self serving tithe teaching. I must admit that the pastor of our current church, who is usually very grace-oriented teaches the same tithe teaching.</p>
<p>It drives me batty. When we went to our PDI church, we were dirt poor and tithed faithfully up until we were disfellowshipped. We couldn&#8217;t afford to take our kids to the dentist and one of them actually endured an abcessed tooth, but we couldn&#8217;t afford the dentist but we were tithing faithfully.</p>
<p>They will inevitably(sp) during a tithing sermon, tell you to put<br />
God to the test (because the Bible says to,) and dare Him to bless you (or some such nonsense.)</p>
<p>I am here to say that the minute we stopped tithing legalistically and started using the money that God had given us to take care of our family and *give* to the church, our finances have prospered tremendously. </p>
<p>I think this is a heart issue. I give what I give to the church willingly and with a generous heart. I believe our primary responsibility is to our children and elderly parents. </p>
<p>And to answer the question that is being asked in the title of this post, no, I do not trust my leaders blindly and I would run far away from leadership that encouraged blind faith in anyone but God Himself.</p>
<p>I was in serious error to allow my children to suffer to fulfil the tenents of legalistic teaching.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
